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How do you find a single woman? (for FFM threesome)

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How do you find a single woman? Generally there are two options but three possibilities. First option is online and I would strongly recommend avoiding social network sites. Reason being they are not set up for this which means you will get a lot of time wasters and useless replies. Another reason is you may 'hook-up' with someone underage. Generally speaking it does not matter that an underage member tells you that they are 21 and you have no reason not to believe them. Instead what matter their actual age. Reason being charges like statutory rape are what is termed a strict liability crime meaning it does not matter what you believe at the time it occurred but what matters is that you committed the act. So, if being discrete and keeping your privacy is a concern then avoiding a social networking site is well advised.


Another option is attending a swingers club. Swingers clubs come in one of two forms. One form is termed an off premise club which means you can meet like minded individuals but no sexual activity occurs on premise. The other type is an on premise club which allows you to meet like minded individuals and allows sex on premise.


A few things you do need to realize about clubs. First thing, the reason why the offer single women free admission is due to the fact very few attend and so giving free admission is a way to entice them. For someone like you it means you will most likely have to attend more than once to increase your chance of meeting a single woman.


Second thing not every club is suited to everyone individual. This may mean you have to attend several clubs before you find one that suits both of your tastes. It also may mean that certain events that the club holds may not be suited to your tastes so it may be worth contacting the club to find out what events they will be holding.


Third issue clubs can be expensive especially if you have to travel. This may mean you spend a few hundred $ by the time the evening is over.


Fourth issue is a club, unlike being online, happens in real time. This means you need to talk with your partner what is your limits on your first attendance (e.g. do you just socialize or play). Like any real time situation you cannot expect people to come to you if you do not make yourself known. So going to a club sitting in the corner and expecting people to flock to you is unrealistic. You need to be extroverted enough to go around introduce yourself and talk to others to get yourself known. Finally in a club situation you need to be assertive, be able to say 'no', and stick to your boundaries. In essence you need to plan and stick to your boundaries.


Okay, you said there are three possibilities of finding a single woman but you only mention two, what is the third? The third is using online site or a club to find a couple who is willing to share the female. This can come in two forms. One option instead of looking for a single woman the two of you are willing to consider another couple. Second option is to look for a couple who is willing to share the female half with you but do be prepared for them to expect that you reciprocate.


In conclusion it is important that you are patient and are open minded about finding a single female otherwise you will not succeed in your search. Also it is important that the two of you are in agreement with this and communicate throughout the process. If you are not you risk destroying your relationship. My advice would to take it slow, agree to boundaries, and make sure if the threesome happens the communication continues after the threesome has occurred.